Most people don’t realize they’re stuck.
But they feel it.
– Constantly toggling between overwhelm and numbness.
– Dorsal shutdown meets sympathetic overdrive.
– Minds crammed with to-do’s, desires, and deadlines.
I need to serve.
I need to promote.
I need to connect.
I need to schedule.
I need to achieve.
I need to appease
We call it productivity.
We call it responsibility.
We call it our calling.
But often, it’s a dysregulated nervous system screaming for rest.
Here’s something that helps:
Start by stopping.
– Look around.
– Orient to your space.
– Try this 5-4-3-2-1 reset:
• 5 things you see
• 5 sensations in your body
• 5 things you hear
Name them. Gently.
Then do 4. Then 3. Then 2. Then 1.
Then pause.
Feel what shifts.
Don’t wait for crisis.
Do this on the regular.
Not just when you’re spiraling or shutting down.
Not just when you’re fixating, folding, flocking, flopping.
No matter the state, this is a way home.
– You’re not lazy.
– You’re not broken.
You’re dysregulated.
And that can be rewired – with awareness, rhythm, love, and care.
Try this today.
And if it helps, pass it on.
